I am a married woman, mother of two teenagers and a full time carer to my eldest. She has complexed needs and learning disabilities. I am a woman who has struggled with her identity and life purpose, been tested more than I can remember, given up on any hope, given up on herself. I always showed up for others but never for myself. I know how it feels like to be at the point of no return. It has taken some ugly experiences for me to realise that there is no other way to change or improve your life, other than showing up for yourself and WORKING ON YOURSELF FIRST. I realised that even ALLAH SWT will not change my state, until I do the work.
I have faced trauma, depression, anxiety, anger, rejection, loss and the list goes on. I faced these by myself. I have realised through inner work that,
It’s me who is responsible for my overall wellbeing. No one can make me happy but me. If I want people to treat me right, I have to treat myself right. I have to Love, Respect, Appreciate and be Kind to myself first before I expect that from others.’
My dear sisters I had to turn my life around for myself. I had to step up and show up for myself.
Now I Coach sisters who are on the journey of self-discovery, healing, growth and self-transformation. I host a Weekly Women Only Workshop. I Co-host a Parenting workshop with a sister and am working on a Women Empowerment Project to support my sisters in need.